10.02.09
100 books tag
Here’s a tag from starsinmyeyes
1 Pride and Prejudice – Jane Austen x
2 The Lord of the Rings – JRR Tolkien x
3 Jane Eyre – Charlotte Bronte x
4 Harry Potter series – JK Rowling x
5 To Kill a Mockingbird – Harper Lee x
6 The Bible
7 Wuthering Heights – Emily Bronte x
8 Nineteen Eighty Four – George Orwell
9 His Dark Materials – Philip Pullman
10 Great Expectations – Charles Dickens x
Total: 7
11 Little Women – Louisa M Alcott x
12 Tess of the D’Urbervilles – Thomas Hardy x
13 Catch 22 – Joseph Heller x
14 Complete Works of Shakespeare x
15 Rebecca – Daphne Du Maurier x
16 The Hobbit – JRR Tolkien x
17 Birdsong – Sebastian Faulks
18 Catcher in the Rye – JD Salinger
19 The Time Traveler’s Wife – Audrey Niffenegger x
20 Middlemarch – George Eliot
Total: 7
21 Gone With The Wind – Margaret Mitchell x
22 The Great Gatsby – F Scott Fitzgerald x
23 Bleak House – Charles Dickens
24 War and Peace – Leo Tolstoy x
25 The Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy x
27 Crime and Punishment – Fyodor Dostoyevsky x
28 Grapes of Wrath – John Steinbeck
29 Alice in Wonderland – Lewis Carroll x
30 The Wind in the Willows – Kenneth Grahame x
Total: 7
31 Anna Karenina – Leo Tolstoy x
32 David Copperfield – Charles Dickens x
33 Chronicles of Narnia – CS Lewis
34 Emma – Jane Austen x
35 Persuasion – Jane Austen x
36 The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe – CS Lewis
37 The Kite Runner – Khaled Hosseini x
38 Captain Corelli’s Mandolin – Louis De Bernieres x
39 Memoirs of a Geisha – Arthur Golden x
40 Winnie the Pooh – AA Milne x
Total: 8
41 Animal Farm – George Orwell x
42 The Da Vinci Code – Dan Brown x
43 One Hundred Years of Solitude – Gabriel Garcia Marquez
44 A Prayer for Owen Meaney – John Irving
45 The Woman in White – Wilkie Collins x
46 Anne of Green Gables – LM Montgomery x
47 Far From The Madding Crowd – Thomas Hardy x
48 The Handmaid’s Tale – Margaret Atwood
49 Lord of the Flies – William Golding x
50 Atonement – Ian McEwan
Total: 6
51 Life of Pi – Yann Martel
52 Dune – Frank Herbert
53 Cold Comfort Farm – Stella Gibbons
54 Sense and Sensibility – Jane Austen x
55 A Suitable Boy – Vikram Seth x
56 The Shadow of the Wind – Carlos Ruiz Zafon
57 A Tale Of Two Cities – Charles Dickens x
58 Brave New World – Aldous Huxley
59 The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night – Mark Haddon
60 Love In The Time Of Cholera – Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Total: 3
61 Of Mice and Men – John Steinbeck
62 Lolita – Vladimir Nabokov x
63 The Secret History – Donna Tartt
64 The Lovely Bones – Alice Sebold x
65 Count of Monte Cristo – Alexandre Dumas x
66 On The Road – Jack Kerouac
67 Jude the Obscure – Thomas Hardy
69 Midnight’s Children – Salman Rushdie x
70 Moby Dick – Herman Melville x
Total: 5
71 Oliver Twist – Charles Dickens x
72 Dracula – Bram Stoker x
73 The Secret Garden – Frances Hodgson Burnett x
74 Notes From A Small Island – Bill Bryson
75 Ulysses – James Joyce x
76 The Inferno – Dante
77 Swallows and Amazons – Arthur Ransome x
78 Germinal – Emile Zola
79 Vanity Fair – William Makepeace Thackeray x
80 Possession – AS Byatt
Total: 6
81 A Christmas Carol – Charles Dickens x
82 Cloud Atlas – David Mitchell
83 The Color Purple – Alice Walker
84 The Remains of the Day – Kazuo Ishiguro x
85 Madame Bovary – Gustave Flaubert x
86 A Fine Balance – Rohinton Mistry
87 Charlotte’s Web – EB White x
88 The Five People You Meet In Heaven – Mitch Albom
89 Adventures of Sherlock Holmes – Sir Arthur Conan Doyle x
90 The Faraway Tree Collection – Enid Blyton x
Total: 6
91 Heart of Darkness – Joseph Conrad
92 The Little Prince – Antoine De Saint-Exupery x
93 The Wasp Factory – Iain Banks
94 Watership Down – Richard Adams x
95 A Confederacy of Dunces – John Kennedy Toole
96 A Town Like Alice – Nevil Shute
97 The Three Musketeers – Alexandre Dumas x
98 Hamlet – William Shakespeare x
99 Charlie and the Chocolate Factory – Roald Dahl x
100 Les Miserables – Victor Hugo x
Total: 5
So. A total of 60. I think I’m going to go order some of these books on amazon now. It’s been so long since I had time to read a book. Just cuddle up and read and drink tea
Been partying and working like crazy all year.
Amazon, here I come.
Cheers y’all. Peace.
09.29.09
Durga Day
Durga Puja today and I was as oblivious as ever. My Dutch supervisor reads his paper and sees these goats being sacrificed in Bangladesh. Then does a quick look up at me, hesitates and says: Aarabi, do you know today is Durga Day?
lol
A: Yes Edgar, it’s called a Puja
I love how he’s fascinated by our epics and religious stories, our traditions and social systems. At work, I talk quite straight about some of the shi*ty things in our system. I also talk straight about things which strike me shi*y in the dutch system too (so don’t send me hate mail already)
I found a very pretty bangle which mom put in my bag when I was in India. I heart it so much! And to make the evening even more special, I’m wearing a new salwar!
Indian clothes make a girl feel so graceful and beautiful. The cuts and flows make you automatically feel more lovely and gentle. What is even more cute is guys start treating you with more gentility. I am amazed at how they transform. Maybe it’s something Indian guys are hard coded to do? Maybe traditional clothes trigger some deep down gene?
I think I’ll wear a saree to work tomorrow. Make Navratri special at KPN
Aarabi is a happy bee today!
Cheers all and peace. Enjoy your Navratri.
09.26.09
of Jacksons and Jupiler
I am utterly lost trying to understand what men see in beer.
Even the sweet Kriek beer , which is a cherry beer, makes me feel sick with it’s semi bitter after taste. So I was talking to a friend about what guys see in beer. Apparently after the first few sips, they don’t notice the bitter anymore. Okkaayy. Why go through with the first horrid sips and get to that point anyway?! you know? like what’s the point? Let’s all grow fat and ugly together?
I’ve nothing against alcohol. My housemates drink it by the litre – honour bright
I just don’t get beer.
On a completely different note, this weekend, I’ve shit loads of stinking work to do, a slumber party and an India-Pak cricket match and a 20 page report to start and finish. I’m so screwed.
So to keep myself from completely flipping under the work, I’ve been digging up old favorite songs and I’ve gotten re-hooked to Janet.
I’m leaving you guys with this:
peace homies.
09.22.09
Spinning
So! I’m trying to get my life back on track. Number one on my things to do is keep my mind occupied all the time.
I work during the day on my internship and thesis. It almost always leaks into my evenings and nights. I never have even a half day of no jobs. I work for another group at university which pays me rather good. I also joined the Board of Telecom at university and am organizing events for them. I’ve joined my university sport centre and I’m falling in love with the idea of pushing my body to its limits, get fighting fit
Today I tried a body activity called Spinning and then Pilates.
Tomorrow, I’m doing Kung Fu. Wednesday, yoga, hip hop and spinning! I love it!
More updates soon!
09.08.09
Being a girl. Being a Woman.
This summer, I’ve grown up. I know I haven’t blogged since April. But it was SO hectic.
I had to get my internship and thesis contract in place. Super loaded with work. Worked out the finance to support my living. Now, juggling 4 jobs, a complete new attitude (because I now live with 3 guys, eep!), coping in a completely Dutch speaking environment at work, a super messed up social life, and several self perception issues later, I present to you the new and improved Aarabi 2.0
This one is still learning to love herself, accept her limitations, understand her needs and loves, pamper herself as she is.
I love me for what I am. I can think with the best, I work with people from the UN with ages of experience and learning. I can chill with almost anyone already with no self perception issues and am working towards straightening out my complicated social life. I can live with 3 absolutely adorable guys who have supported me and strengthened me through this. Hearts, you guys.
Anyway, I’m back. And I’ll post more sooooooon!
Ciao ciao!
04.29.09
I am luck-ay!!
What a hectic couple of months!! I’m still in the middle of it!!
What with all the exams and assignments and tour planning and birthday planning, I’m sooooooo exhausted. My birthday is this week. In a few weeks, my friend and I give a shared bday party – pirate theme!!
For the first time this night, I walked back home alone all the way from the Centrum and did NOT feel scared. I loved the cool breeze and the whispering trees. It took me back to my Magic Faraway Tree and my school summer holidays. What a beautiful beautiful night. The moon was just a sliver of silver, the pools and waterways were gleaming and tiny little ducks swimming everywhere. The TU way was deserted but it really wasn’t scary.
I found the sweetest bookshop in Den Haag ever!! Anyway, I spent hours and hours there this morning. Browsing, drinking off. Nice day off. I’ve made my wish list of books for this year! (It’s something I do everytime I grow one year older) So here goes.
1. Sea of Poppies – Amitav Ghosh
2. An Artist of the Floating World – Kazuo Ishiguro
3. A pale view of the Hills – Kazuo Ishiguro
4. The Volumptious Delights of Peanut Butter and Jam – Lauren Liebenberg
5. Naguib Mahfouz’s Trilogy.
6. Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman – Haruki Murakami
7. Snow – Orhan Pamuk
8. Other Colours – Orhan Pamuk
9. And as usual, my list ends with the book I wish for year after year. When I was a kid, I had this book called the Hollow Tree House by Enid Blyton. It’s now out of publication. Mom lent it to someone who never returned the book and now, I’ve found my copy of the book on Amazon. It’s selling for 159 euro today. Aaaaaaaaaarggghhhhh!!!!! I love my book! I want it back! Please Mr.Whoever-owns-it-now, can I please have my book back? I can’t even get a new edition anymore!
Book lovers, unite. I’ve been dying to find a book on Book Crossing and I can’t seem to cross a single book. Is it just me or do you see that happening to you too?
03.05.09
Convinced.
Today, I’ve become a feminist. I read an article about a community of women in Kandahar, a war wrecked part of Afghanistan, bull-headedly defying the violent opposition to their right to educate themselves. Their school was attacked by bikers spraying acid on them, attacking them and threatening to disfigure them if they continued studying. These girls walk miles to school everyday, defying the threats and brutalities of a bunch of testosterone happy chauvenists who mask their insecurity with religion. I’ve read parts of these religious books and I’ve a heck lot of moslem friends. I’ve Never heard it being said that women shouldn’t be educated.
This, is feminity in its finest form. It says Bitch. Here’s a finger for you. You can take all your insecurity and all your religious beliefs and put it another place. These girls celebrate arriving at school everyday. Shamia has had her face scarred and disfigured. But she keeps coming back. So do all 1300 of them. Are men so threatened by women that they’d resort to the low down dirty of physical abuse? I’m amazed and inspired by these women. They have me converted.
That brings me to the idea of feminism per se. Burning bras and dirty talking might be alright for promoting the cult. But tangible action? True feminism is this, what I talked about before. And also this. Because we’d like to tell the chaddi walas that there’s more to us than sticks up our a*ses, unlike them. And thank you very much. Hitting us, throwing acid in our faces, pulling us out of pubs by the hair, will only make us laugh at you. We’re only going to make you feel weaker and more threatened than ever before.
What really surprises me, is the fact that there are so many guys who believe in this kind of strong feminism. Strength in women. And they’re being quiet about it. I haven’t read any blogs about this, or heard my guy friends talking about it. Sam, Ram, Su, Krishnan, Rajesh, Anchit, I’m looking at you guys.
I think I’ll ask one of these guys to guest post here. That should be interesting. And Krish, BikerAnna, where are you guys on this?
You should check out Arayan on this.
PS. Krish has written on this. I’m thinking of asking a guy to do a guest post here. On this issue maybe. We’ll see soon!
03.02.09
Kaanya
I was looking for new music and look what I found!! Niraj Chag’s Kaanya is addictive. Loved it. The other songs require high quality equipment, which my stupid laptop doesn’t have – sooooooo, I’m gonna buy the cd! Yay! Music Shopping again!
I’d like to hear what kind of lounge music you listen to – apparently there’s a nice place to go in Amsterdam for lounge and I can’t seem to get the name of the place from anybody! Help please!
02.28.09
De-tag!
Rehab, tag me again and you’re dead. Anyway, here goes. Ten totally irrelevant, random things about me.
1. Simulating antennas is fun. That’s how my first laptop burnt out. In my final year of bachelor of technology, i left one huge simulation on overnight. when i woke up in the morning and tapped my keyboard, my laptop gasped it’s last – literally. There was a puff of smoke out of the cooling vent and some crackling noises and electric sparks. Then she died – my poor baby.
2. I had an imaginary brother till i was 19 years old.
3. I’ve been held up by, um, let’s say, “anti-social elements” in India. And had life threatened.
4. I’ve been known to fall in love with cartoon characters. Aladdin, Huey, (Huey of Disney Hour, zee tv), Woody (Toy Story), so many.
5. I love the arts - music, dance, theatre, painting. These are my best stress busters. I love going to museums and acting in plays. When I’m really stressed, I just put on music and start dancing – often at 2 am in the morning. No, I’m not psycho
I just love dancing.
6. The best way to see a city, if you ask me, is by foot. I walked all over Brussels. I swear. Over two days, we covered almost the whole city. We did the chocolate trail, the comic trail and parts of every other trail. It was serious fun! I love exploring cities and mixing with the locals. We met the most fascinating old man at a breakfast bar. And when he left he told us that I’ve the most speaking eyes. Whatever that means. You’ll never catch me in shorts and a straw hat, unless I’m in Bali or something.
7. I’m a tambrahm who wont drink coffee. Or eat coconut.
8. I’d give up all my life savings for one ride on a time machine. To go and live in the Victorian era. Just for one season though. Not forever. I couldn’t handle the insane women back then. I’d go nuts. And they’d be shocked to find a girl who lives in jeans, does math and hopes to have only one boyfriend.
9. My favorite way to read a book is to lounge on a couch at home in the darkness of a hot summer afternoon during agni-nakshatra with cold milo.
I do hereby pass this curse on to
Muhahahaha.
Cheers y’all
02.27.09
Madras! Nalla Madras!
Today was a cloudy, balmy day in Delft.
The sun put in an appearance before lunchtime and kept coming back to peek cheekily every now and then ever since. This is so exactly like the weather in Madras just before the monsoons!
That was always holiday time and it’s invariably connected to pictures in my mind, of sitting in maruti cars (later of corsas) and driving through long long highways, with the crazy wind screaming through the car, a wonderful lovely book that’s just been begun in my hand, mom and dad in the front seat, beautiful prospect of rains, tall tall palm trees bending in the wind, emerald green fields glittering away around the modest brown huts nestled snugly among them, of goats being driven across said highway and dad cursing at the goatherd, little brown kids with huge huge grins waving from the roads, zillion engineering colleges along the way, and the feeling of HOLIDAY in the air!
Knowing where my next indulgence was going to come from, knowing we were going to play all evening and all night and then tell ghost stories, knowing I’d see my mom’s face first thing in the morning and someone’s got my back – I can’t believe I took these things for granted. Okay, maybe I sound cliched. You only appreciate something when you lose it and all that. I just can’t believe how hard this realization is hitting me. Oh, I so NOT pampered at home. Believe you me. I guess I just took some of our social norms for granted.
It’s like some gentle nudge to remind of my blessings. I have such a fantastic family, and such fantastic friends. I got what I’d dreamt and worked for. What’s more, it now looks like I’m going to be able to combine many of my dreams into one single career. Being a writer, a linguist, an innovator and an entrepreneur. There’s nothing more that I could possibly ask for.
This is just so fantastic. Today’s weather has made me SO Happy! It’s good to be easy to please isn’t it? Doesn’t take too much to make you happy!


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